Hai Hi, im in a very difficult situation and I need your advice. We had some dates, but yet reach to a relationship, but she still give me signals. Until recently, I decided to drop out of college to find new opportunities without telling her. I called her to have coffee with me so I could explain to her. The night before our date, i flirted with her a little bit like we used to but she rejected me and telling we should just be friends. What should I do now? Sounds like she is rejecting you and trying to distance herself from you.
Hai Thank you for such a quick reply. I wish I could tell you more about the things between us, its so complicated that I cant tell you all about it in the comments section. The thing is she has a lot of signs of a girlfriend material you mentioned in your article. If she is influenced by other people, and they essentially make her decisions for her, then it is going to be very hard to convince her of anything.
All you can do is let her know how you feel and see what happens. Nothing else is in your control. Now here is a situation; I met a girl got interested in her. I asked for her name which she gave to me then I requested for Facebook friendship and she accepted. I did this because we leave in two distant cities so I felt Facebook was the only option to use if I were to start talking to her,. We started chatting, after a month I requested for her phone number, she gave it to me via Facebook chat 2 weeks ago.
Tell me could this be a sign that she is not intended? She is currently in college. Bellaisa It sounds like she just wants you to chase her. She is probably sitting at home thinking you are not interested in her anymore. When I was younger, I was too scared to call guys — even if I liked them. So, just keep taking the initiative. We had our first date mid April.
It went super well. She's not trying to make you jealous. You're just so deeply entrenched in the friend zone that she's venting to you about some other dude she actually likes. Giphy PLAYING HARD TO GET: She spent the night, but she doesn't want to be clingy and annoying. So she rushes out of there as fast as she can to leave you wanting more. Never comes to your place. On the off chance that you did hook up, it was at her place and completely on her terms. And she never indicates any interest in coming to your place.
Sign she doesn't like you: She never indicates any interest in coming to your place. Again, she wants you to know she has other options, and you're LUCKY to be the one she's going home with. She'd just rather be with this guy. Waits for you to add her on social media, gives it a few days and then accepts your requests. She puts the social media ball in your court.
But she's not opposed to being friends with you. She doesn't want you anywhere near her or her cyber world. Because, you know, she DOESN'T LIKE YOU. Doesn't give you the time of day, but somehow, all of her friends know who you are and love you. You assume you mean legitimately nothing to her because she plays it so freaking cool, but when yes, when you meet her friends, it's obvious that they all love you and have heard a ton about you already.
Her friends might know who you are. But it's as the creepy guy who's obsessed with her. In the end, the goal is to win and take everything. Men have often complained of the opposite sex of playing hard to get. Men however, were given the enormous task of wooing and pursuing, not to mention the competition from other guys. Remember, relationships are not like your regular Hollywood summer chick flick where the guy impresses and wins the girl immediately. Women, who are in advantage of choosing from a list of candidates, have the leisure to put you through their little mind games and tests to see if you deserve her company.
Finding the potential partner works in the same way. Therefore, there is a need to be sure at the very beginning. Playing hard to get is one way for women to determine if their potential partner would be up to the task. You meet a girl in a jazz bar. You muster up your courage, fix your jacket and throw in that awesome one-line conversation starter.
From a few minutes of small talk, you learned that she works 10 hours a day, plus after-shift classes in art school. Numbers are exchanged and hopes soar high. Remember, in this day and age, women can also be career-oriented like men. There is no better ego drug than the experience of being pursued, be it a girl or a guy.