However there are also plenty of people using Tinder just for hook-ups. You can pay money for premium features including Tinder Passport the ability to swipe through matches elsewhere in the world, say, before a trip and Rewind, for those times when you swipe left too hastily and immediately regret it. Free Bumble is much like Tinder but with one key difference: The idea behind it is to save women from receiving leering advances or cringey chat-up lines from men, and it also takes the pressure off guys to start conversations.
Similarly, your match only has 24 hours to reply — if he does though, the time limit disappears for future messages. You create your profile through Facebook and can also link your Instagram and Spotify accounts if you like, set your preferences, then scroll down through your options. Download for iOS , Android or Windows Phone 4. We noticed both a different type of person and questions on Match compared to the likes of Tinder and Bumble.
This is an app for people really looking for relationships. The app is easy to use but we personally found the number of messages, winks, views and favourites we received overwhelming. Download for iOS , Android or Windows Phone 5. The lengthy survey you must complete before you sign up. It is s of questions long and asks many probing questions about religion and moral views. The price and process mean only the dedicated remain — but equally, can lead to people dropping out mid-process.
Free to join and to have limited contact with members. You can connect with Facebook so getting started is much quicker than with other sites. A one step Facebook log-in process leads on to a few simple questions the most obvious — height, kids, whether you drink or smoke , a description and a photo — then you are in. You can browse a selection of pictures and ages before logging in, anything more specific requires you to become a member. Members can search by interest, location or age.
To use the site fully — sending unlimited messages to other members — payment is required. As with many free or low-cost sites, ads can be frequent and feel spammy. However, perhaps controversially, arguably this is more of a pro than a con — as the saying goes, opposites attract! But too many filters and rigid check-boxes can have you dismiss huge numbers of people at once — something that apps like Bumble, Happn and Tinder tried to do away with though that brings its own set of issues.
One 5ft 10in friend reports she saw only potential men to browse when she logged in to Match. When she reduced her height to 5ft 9in, that rocketed to almost 2, A full 1, men would have unknowingly discounted this amazing person because of 2. It seems unavoidable that if we have filters and tick-boxes for features and likes or dislikes, we could be cutting off literally thousands of potential suitors because of something we might have thought minor or irrelevant if we met in the flesh.
Yet many friends of mine who had previously ruled out anyone with children on a dating site are now happily dating or married to single parents they met in real life. With judgemental tick-boxes they would have filtered out the very person they are in love with now. But the moment they spoke in real life, they were hooked. The moral of this story is: Be open minded, people! Plenty of Fish Pros: Quick to join, lots of interactions, constant flow of fresh members.
Which sounds like a hella challenge… Cons: So large it can be time-consuming to keep on top of communications and filter through the members, though Match. Anecdotally, users can be spammed by unwanted messages and inappropriate pictures. Easy to link up with Facebook.